Before the date

Planning and preparation before the date plays a big part in helping you to make the best possible impression on the other person. Below is a very simple checklist that everyone should follow.

• Make an effort with your appearance

It goes without saying that you should make the time to get ready to be sure that you look your best. This is especially important for very busy or very disorganised people. Don't suddenly find that you have twenty minutes to get ready because you haven't planned properly. Anyway, the getting ready part is all part of the fun isn't it?!

• Get the outfit right

It is important to make an effort but whatever you do don't overdress for the occasion. Think about the chosen venue and get it right. For example, you don't want to be wearing a mini skirt at the bowling alley. It gives off all the wrong impressions and you're guaranteed to feel uncomfortable for the entire date!

When on the date

Of course no two dates will ever be the same, but these general rules always apply:

• Do be yourself
• Do tell the truth
• Do listen to what the other person is saying
• Do laugh at their jokes (But only if they're funny!)
• Do use positive body language like eye contact and smiling
• Don't get drunk. Even if you're nervous.
• Do keep personal chat to a minimum. Like talking about your first pet's name for example.
• And whatever you do, don't talk about your exes early on... Nobody wants to hear sob stories or imagine you being with anybody else. This is the sort of conversation to have much further down the line and it is much too personal to discuss on a first date.

After the date

• Don not rush.

Pushing for a second date if the other party has not mentioned it first can seem a little desperate therefore very unattractive to the opposite sex. As a general rule you don't have to set another date up that night. That's what phone calls, emails etc are for. Take your time and enjoy the build up. In the same vein it is essential that you do not leap into bed with the other person straight away if it's a meaningful long term relationship that you're after.

• Be safe

Remember that even though you�ve been out with this person once it doesn�t mean that you know them yet. This is especially important if you have met online, through dating personals or similar, rather than through a friend.

• Play it cool

If the other person doesn't get back in touch with you right away, don't panic! They may be busy with other things - like work or friends etc - and it doesn't necessarily mean that they didn't have a good time or that they don't want to see you again. Whatever you do don't call them or email them constantly. This is a sure-fire way of scaring them off!

Hot Women Dating Tips

You don’t find many articles on dating tips for meeting Japanese women but we did come up with this one. His main suggestion is to find ways to make yourself stand out from all the other guys. Don’t have what some call the Asian fetish where you pretend to love everything Japanese including Sushi and all of Japanese culture. This does not work. Just act naturally and don’t try to impress with your knowledge of all facts Japanese. Don’t try to speak Japanese unless you really know how to speak the language.

Japanese women certainly are among the cutest Asian women and Japanese society is close to our American way of life. After all Japan does have the worlds #2 economy last time I checked. Theses hot Japanese girls like to dress in trendy fashion and have all the latest in electronic gadgets, many of which are made in Japan or other countries in Asia. There are a couple of dating sites where you can meet these Japanese girls and we have reviewed them on our main site. Please take the time to check them out.

              How to Attract Japanese Women

    What makes these women so popular in the eastern part of the world especially in America? Japanese women have made a huge name for themselves and countless men are fighting to get her attention and get them to their bedroom. You are competing with these men so how can you make your self standout from the competition of all these desperate guys trying to get that lovely Japanese girl?

    Easy, don’t be desperate and don’t have what the experts call an Asian fetish. Stop showing her how much you are into Japanese culture- it does not work. In fact I once was ignore by a Japanese girl because I was talking too much about her culture how much I liked it and all that.

    If you ask them many of them will tell you that they do not like all the guys who talk too much about them. They do not like all these guys that are obsess with their culture.

    What you need to do is find a way to stand out from all the other guys, do something different. Don’t try to talk to her in Japanese – it’s annoying. You should be able to talk with her without showing your obsessing. Save your obsession for yourself.

    She would like to have a fun conversation with you and also learn about your background as well. While you both are talking you can ask her how to say something in her language. Stop trying to hard to impress her and get her approval and just have fun. Japanese women want to date eastern men but not if you are going to have an Asian fetish. You have a great advantage over these women that Japanese men don’t have.

    Find out more about the advantages that YOU have over Japanese men that will get you that hot Japanese girl.