Feeling lonely? Understandable. Tons of guys have problems picking up and attracting women. Unfortunately for most of us (including myself), we weren’t born with the magical abilities to be able to get girls without much effort. I was finally fed up with my situation, so I set out the better part of a decade ago and I discovered exactly what worked with women, and more importantly, what didn’t! So now here I am, and I am going to give you my top 3 tips and tricks that you can use RIGHT NOW to start picking up women and will get you right on your way to learning how to get girls!
* · Don’t be Afraid of Rejection
Most guys have a paralyzing fear of rejection. Typically, it happens like this. A man sees a beautiful woman, and sometimes, he may even talk himself into approaching her. Between this moment and the next, the man starts doubting himself. “She looks busy”, “She probably has a boyfriend”, or “She’s way out of my league” when in reality this is just people validating their own fear of being rejected. In fact, when people are paying me hundreds of dollars to give them personal one-on-one coaching, I will tell them to go out and get rejected on purpose! Most women, even if they do end up telling you no, they will do it by saying “I have a boyfriend” so don’t be afraid of being laughed at. Go to a city a few miles away to where you know no one and no one knows you. This way, you can ask women out without the feeling of rejection because at the end of the day, you’ll never see these people again. As Michael Jordan once said, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
* · Be Confident
Women, when asked, will always say the most desirable and sexy trait that a man can have is to be confident. Act like you run the world, like you are the most desirable man on earth and you can get practically whatever you want, whenever you want. If you approach a woman and you seem hesitant or you act like you are nervous, you will get rejected almost 100% of the time. Be confident! If you want to discover how to get girls, this is the most important thing you need to master!
* · Be A Challenge
Women love challenges. This is typically why most women date “jerks” as opposed to nice guys. This isn’t because Jerk’s are more attractive than nice guys, it’s just that they are more of a challenge. You don’t need to be a jerk to get women if you know how to be a challenge. Jokingly point out something, “those are nice shoes, my 5 year old niece has a pair” and smile. Every woman, everywhere, gets compliments thrown at her nonstop by guys who want to hook up with her. Change the game, challenge her. You can even create a small amount of drama if you really want to get her attracted do you.
If you follow these tips on how to get girls, I guarantee that you will be a ladies man in no time! This is just the tip of the ice berg however. I just created a guide that is jam packed with every peice of information you need (and more) to guarantee to success with women.